Do you know how to play the game you’re in?
In finite games, like football or chess, the players are known, the rules are fixed, and the endpoint is clear. The winners and losers are easily identified.
In infinite games, like business or politics or life itself, the players come and go, the rules are changeable, and there is no defined endpoint. There are no winners or losers in an infinite game; there is only ahead and behind.
The more I started to understand the difference between finite and infinite games, the more I began to see infinite games all around us. I started to see that many of the struggles that organizations face exist simply because their leaders were playing with a finite mindset in an infinite game. These organizations tend to lag behind in innovation, discretionary effort, morale and ultimately performance.
The leaders who embrace an infinite mindset, in stark contrast, build stronger, more innovative, more inspiring organizations. Their people trust each other and their leaders. They have the resilience to thrive in an ever-changing world, while their competitors fall by the wayside. Ultimately, they are the ones who lead the rest of us into the future.
Any worthwhile undertaking starts with Why – the purpose, cause or belief that inspires us to do what we do and inspires others to join us. Good leaders know how to build Circles of Safety that promote trust and cooperation throughout their organizations. But that’s not enough to help us chart a course through the unpredictable, often chaotic landscape of today’s marketplace.
I now believe that the ability to adopt an infinite mindset is a prerequisite for any leader who aspires to leave their organization in better shape than they found it.
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Simon Sinek - David Mead - Peter Docker - Találd meg a miérted!
Tisztában vagyunk vele, miért tesszük nap mint nap, amit teszünk?
Mi a megoldás, ha a miértünk nem kapcsolódik a jelenlegi munkánkhoz?
Hogyan hangoljuk össze csapatunk tagjainak miértjét szervezetünk közös törekvéseivel?
A munkánkban megtalálni a kiteljesedés lehetőségét nem kiváltság, sokkal inkább alapjog. Csak úgy végezhetjük lelkesen a feladatainkat, és tudjuk inspirálni a csapatunkat, ha megtaláljuk és megértjük a tevékenységünk célját.
Simon Sinek sztártanácsadó Kezdj a miérttel! című TED-előadása és könyve után Peter Docker és David Mead közreműködésével végre elkészített egy gyakorlati útmutatót. A Találd meg a miérted! bemutatja, hogyan alkalmazhatjuk a miért-koncepciót a mindennapi életben. Jól felépített gyakorlatok, illusztrációk és lépések segítenek felfedezni saját legbelső motivációnkat. Akár életünk első pozíciójában szeretnénk kiteljesedni, akár egy vállalat vagy más szervezet vezetőjeként, saját és csapatunkkal közös miértünk megtalálása a tartós siker és inspiráció záloga.
Dale Carnegie - How to Win Friends and Influence People
How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the first bestselling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide.
David Epstein - Range
“Urgent and important. . . an essential read for bosses, parents, coaches, and anyone who cares about improving performance.” —Daniel H. Pink
“So much crucial and revelatory information about performance, success, and education.” —Susan Cain, bestselling author of Quiet
A powerful argument for how to succeed in any field: develop broad interests and skills while everyone around you is rushing to specialize.
Plenty of experts argue that anyone who wants to develop a skill, play an instrument, or lead their field should start early, focus intensely, and rack up as many hours of deliberate practice as possible. If you dabble or delay, you'll never catch up to the people who got a head start. But a closer look at research on the world's top performers, from professional athletes to Nobel laureates, shows that early specialization is the exception, not the rule.
David Epstein examined the world's most successful athletes, artists, musicians, inventors, forecasters and scientists. He discovered that in most fields--especially those that are complex and unpredictable--generalists, not specialists, are primed to excel. Generalists often find their path late, and they juggle many interests rather than focusing on one. They're also more creative, more agile, and able to make connections their more specialized peers can't see.
Provocative, rigorous, and engrossing, Range makes a compelling case for actively cultivating inefficiency. Failing a test is the best way to learn. Frequent quitters end up with the most fulfilling careers. The most impactful inventors cross domains rather than deepening their knowledge in a single area. As experts silo themselves further while computers master more of the skills once reserved for highly focused humans, people who think broadly and embrace diverse experiences and perspectives will increasingly thrive.
Gretchen Rubin - Better Than Before
The author of the blockbuster New York Times bestsellers, The Happiness Project and Happier at Home, tackles the critical question: How do we change?
Gretchen Rubin's answer: through habits. Habits are the invisible architecture of everyday life. It takes work to make a habit, but once that habit is set, we can harness the energy of habits to build happier, stronger, more productive lives.
So if habits are a key to change, then what we really need to know is: How do we change our habits?
Better than Before answers that question. It presents a practical, concrete framework to allow readers to understand their habits—and to change them for good. Infused with Rubin’s compelling voice, rigorous research, and easy humor, and packed with vivid stories of lives transformed, Better than Before explains the (sometimes counter-intuitive) core principles of habit formation.
Along the way, Rubin uses herself as guinea pig, tests her theories on family and friends, and answers readers’ most pressing questions—oddly, questions that other writers and researchers tend to ignore:
• Why do I find it tough to create a habit for something I love to do?
• Sometimes I can change a habit overnight, and sometimes I can’t change a habit, no matter how hard I try. Why?
• How quickly can I change a habit?
• What can I do to make sure I stick to a new habit?
• How can I help someone else change a habit?
• Why can I keep habits that benefit others, but can’t make habits that are just for me?
Whether readers want to get more sleep, stop checking their devices, maintain a healthy weight, or finish an important project, habits make change possible. Reading just a few chapters of Better Than Before will make readers eager to start work on their own habits—even before they’ve finished the book.
Louise L. Hay - You Can Heal Your Life
Louise L. Hay, bestselling author, is an internationally known leader in the self-help field. Her key message is: "If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed." The author has a great deal of experience and firsthand information to share about healing, including how she cured herself after being diagnosed with cancer.
Ken Robinson - Lou Aronica - The Element
_From one of the world's leading thinkers and speakers on creativity and self-fulfillment, a breakthrough book about talent, passion, and achievement._
The element is the point at which natural talent meets personal passion. When people arrive at the element, they feel most themselves and most inspired and achieve at their highest levels. The Element draws on the stories of a wide range of people, from ex-Beatle Paul McCartney to Matt Groening, creator of The Simpsons; from Meg Ryan to Gillian Lynne, who choreographed the Broadway productions of Cats and The Phantom of the Opera; and from writer Arianna Huffington to renowned physicist Richard Feynman and others, including business leaders and athletes. It explores the components of this new paradigm: The diversity of intelligence, the power of imagination and creativity, and the importance of commitment to our own capabilities.
With a wry sense of humor, Ken Robinson looks at the conditions that enable us to find ourselves in the element and those that stifle that possibility. He shows that age and occupation are no barrier, and that once we have found our path we can help others to do so as well. The Element shows the vital need to enhance creativity and innovation by thinking differently about human resources and imagination. It is also an essential strategy for transforming education, business, and communities to meet the challenges of living and succeeding in the twenty-first century.
Timothy Keller - The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness
_What are the marks of a supernaturally changed heart? _
This is one of the questions the Apostle Paul addresses as he writes to the church in Corinth. He s not after some superficial outward tinkering, but instead a deep rooted, life altering change that takes place on the inside. In an age where pleasing people, puffing up your ego and building your résumé are seen as the methods to make it , the Apostle Paul calls us to find true rest in blessed self forgetfulness.
In this short and punchy book, best selling author Timothy Keller, shows that gospel humility means we can stop connecting every experience, every conversation with ourselves and can thus be free from self condemnation. A truly gospel humble person is not a self hating person or a self loving person, but a self forgetful person. _This freedom can be yours..._
Gretchen Rubin - The Happiness Project
Gretchen Rubin had an epiphany one rainy afternoon in the unlikeliest of places: a city bus. "The days are long, but the years are short," she realized. "Time is passing, and I'm not focusing enough on the things that really matter." In that moment, she decided to dedicate a year to her happiness project.
In this lively and compelling account of that year, Rubin carves out her place alongside the authors of bestselling memoirs such as Julie and Julia, The Year of Living Biblically, and Eat, Pray, Love. With humor and insight, she chronicles her adventures during the twelve months she spent test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific research, and lessons from popular culture about how to be happier.
Rubin didn't have the option to uproot herself, nor did she really want to; instead she focused on improving her life as it was. Each month she tackled a new set of resolutions: give proofs of love, ask for help, find more fun, keep a gratitude notebook, forget about results. She immersed herself in principles set forth by all manner of experts, from Epicurus to Thoreau to Oprah to Martin Seligman to the Dalai Lama to see what worked for her—and what didn't.
Her conclusions are sometimes surprising—she finds that money can buy happiness, when spent wisely; that novelty and challenge are powerful sources of happiness; that "treating" yourself can make you feel worse; that venting bad feelings doesn't relieve them; that the very smallest of changes can make the biggest difference—and they range from the practical to the profound.
Written with charm and wit, The Happiness Project is illuminating yet entertaining, thought-provoking yet compulsively readable. Gretchen Rubin's passion for her subject jumps off the page, and reading just a few chapters of this book will inspire you to start your own happiness project.
Eckhart Tolle - Deepak Chopra - Ki kérdezi, hogy ki vagyok én?
Kivételes alkalom, hogy korunk legnagyobb spirituális mestereitől tanulhatunk: a kötethez tartozó DVD-nek köszönhetően Eckhart Tolle és Deepak Chopra első közös szereplésének lehetünk szem- és fültanúi. A közel kétórás beszélgetés során bölcs meglátásaik segítenek, hogy kilépjünk gondolataink szüntelenül zajongó körforgásából, és megtapasztaljuk a transzcendens pillanatot, amelyben felismerhetjük az egón túlmutató és a világegyetemmel egységben létező identitásunkat.
Hogyan legyünk jelen a mostban? Mi a különbség a gondolatokon és a jelenléten alapuló létezés között? Hogyan fertőzheti meg a gondolat az elménket, akár a vírus? Hogyan azonosuljunk valódi önmagunkkal, nem pusztán az önmagunkról alkotott képpel? Hogyan válthatunk át a tudatosságba és hívhatjuk be a jelenlét állapotát a pillanathoz való tökéletes igazodás révén?
Külön ajándék, hogy a beszélgetés végén dr. Wayne W. Dyer is csatlakozik a színpadon a két tanítóhoz. A 2015-ban elhunyt mester a mindent átható, feltétel nélküli isteni szeretetről beszél, és arról, hogyan élhetjük meg mi magunk is ezt az állapotot. Légy részese Te is e három nagyra becsült tanító felemelő találkozásának!
Jen Sincero - You are a Badass
YOU ARE A BADASS IS THE SELF-HELP BOOK FOR PEOPLE WHO DESPERATELY WANT TO IMPROVE THEIR LIVES BUT DON'T WANT TO GET BUSTED DOING IT. In this refreshingly entertaining how-to guide, bestselling author and world-traveling success coach, Jen Sincero, serves up 27 bitesized chapters full of hilariously inspiring stories, sage advice, easy exercises, and the occasional swear word, helping you to: Identify and change the self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that stop you from getting what you want, Create a life you totally love. And create it NOW, Make some damn money already. The kind you've never made before. By the end of You Are a Badass, you'll understand why you are how you are, how to love what you can't change, how to change what you don't love, and how to use The Force to kick some serious ass.
Robin Sharma - A rang nélküli vezető
A szerzetes, aki eladta a Ferrariját szerzőjétől. Robin Sharma tudhat valamit. Sőt, valami olyant, ami nagyon is kifizetődik az üzleti életben. Olyan cégek, szervezetek kérték fel vezetői tanácsadónak, mint a Microsoft, a GE, a Nike, a FedEx és az IBM vagy a Yale egyetem, az amerikai vöröskereszt és a Fiatal elnökök szervezete. Most mi is ízelítőt kaphatunk tudásából, amelyet eddig csak a világcégekkel osztott meg. Vezess rang nélkül! - hirdeti Sharma, és ebben minden benne van. A villámgyors, szinte követhetetlen tempójú változások közepette csak azoknak a szervezetek van esélye talpon maradni, amelyeknek minden dolgozója igazi vezetőként gondolkodik és cselekszik. Beosztásától függetlenül is a legjobb tudását adja. Nem nehéz felfogni, miért jó ez a cégnek. De miért jó az egyszerű dolgozónak? Sharma, a világhíres életmódguru hisz a viszonzás törvényében. Meggyőződése, hogy a kiemelkedő teljesítményt kiemelkedően viszonozza a társadalom, a kollégák, a vásárlók, a management. Tanácsok sorával segít bennünket, miként szabadítsuk ki, vezessük napvilágra belső vezetőnket, hogyan éljünk, dolgozzunk, gondolkodjunk győztesként. Miként tanítsuk meg agyunkat arra, hogy kifogások helyett megoldásokat találjon, és a legjobbat adhassuk környezetünknek. Ez a könyv nem pusztán az üzleti életről szól. Sharma a teljességre törekvő, boldog élet receptjét adja meg. És ez nem csak a Microsoftnak vagy az IBM-nek fontos, hanem Önnek is! A szerző könyvei 60 ország 75 nyelvén több mint öt millió példányban jelentek meg.
Elizabeth Gilbert - Big Magic (angol)
Readers of all ages and walks of life have drawn inspiration and empowerment from Elizabeth Gilbert’s books for years. Now this beloved author digs deep into her own generative process to share her wisdom and unique perspective about creativity. With profound empathy and radiant generosity, she offers potent insights into the mysterious nature of inspiration. She asks us to embrace our curiosity and let go of needless suffering. She shows us how to tackle what we most love, and how to face down what we most fear. She discusses the attitudes, approaches, and habits we need in order to live our most creative lives. Balancing between soulful spirituality and cheerful pragmatism, Gilbert encourages us to uncover the “strange jewels” that are hidden within each of us. Whether we are looking to write a book, make art, find new ways to address challenges in our work, embark on a dream long deferred, or simply infuse our everyday lives with more mindfulness and passion, Big Magic cracks open a world of wonder and joy
Mark Manson - The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Mason doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.
Novák Ákos - A siker kulcsa: Boldogság
A könyvben 52+1 rövid, könnyen olvasható fejezet található Ezekben a fejezetekben minden benne van, amire szükséged van, hogy rátalálj a boldogságra, ami pedig egyenes út a sikerhez és a bőséghez.
A siker kulcsa: Boldogság egy olyan könyv, amit nem csak egyszer kell elolvasnod. A könyv úgy van felépítve, hogy hétről-hétre, hónapról-hónapra a fejlődés útján képes tartani, ha rendszeresen előveszed és olvasod.
A könyv egy kiváló támasz és segítség számodra. Iránymutatás az álmaid megvalósíátásáben, ugyanakkor menedék is a borús napokon a rossz kedv ellen. 228 oldalon keresztül elvezet a kilátástalanságtól a sikerig. Közben pedig rávilágít, hogy a sikert valójában csak akkor érhetjük el, ha előbb rátalálunk a boldogságra.
Robert T. Kiyosaki - Sharon L. Lechter - Rich Dad, Poor Dad
Rich Dad, Poor Dad chronicles the story of the authors two dads, his own father, who wa the superintendent of education in Hawaii and who ended up dying penniless and his best friends father who dropped out of school at age 13 and went on to become one of the wealthiest men in Hawaii. Kiyosaki uses the story of these two men and their varying financial strategies to illustrate the need for a new financial paradigm in order to achieve financial success in the new millennium.
Napoleon Hill - Gondolkozz és gazdagodj!
Mi az, ami lehetővé teszi, hogy az egyik ember töretlenül előrejusson, alkosson, gyarapodjék és megtalálja a boldogságát - míg a másik egy-két próbálkozás után megfeneklik, és semmire sem viszi? Mi az, ami lehetővé teszi, hogy az egyik ember eredményesen fejlessze emberi kapcsolatait, növelje befolyását - míg a másik képtelen erre? Mi az, ami az egyik ember számára lehetővé teszi, hogy álmaihoz utat találjon a problémák és akadályok dzsungelén át is - míg a másik vak elszántsággal küzd, és nem jut semmire? Sok évvel ezelőtt Andrew Carnegie, a világ egyik leggazdagabb embere vendégül látta a könyv szerzőjét. Az idős iparmágnás a siker titkáról filozofált. Az akkor alig húszéves Hill ott hallott először a Titokról. Az eredmény: Carnegie megbízza őt, tanulmányozza, hogyan működik másoknál a Titok, tapasztalatait összegezve dolgozza ki a siker filozófiáját, fejlesszen ki egy Mestermódszert, és hasznosításra nyújtsa át a világnak. Így született meg ez a könyv. A Gondolkozz és gazdagodj! feltárja a Titkot, és megadja a Módszert.
Nick Hornby - A Long Way Down
"The story is written in the first-person narrative from the points of view of the four main characters, Martin, Maureen, Jess and JJ. These four strangers happen to meet on the roof of a high building called Topper's House in London on New Year's Eve, each with the intent of committing suicide. Their plans for death in solitude, however, are ruined when they meet. The novel recounts their misadventures as they decide to come down from the roof alive - however temporarily that may be."
Michael Bennett - Sarah Bennett - F*ck Feelings
The only self-help book you’ll ever need, from a psychiatrist and his comedy writer daughter, who will help you put aside your unrealistic wishes, stop trying to change things you can’t change, and do the best with what you can control—the first steps to managing all of life’s impossible problems.
Here is the cut-to-the-chase therapy session you’ve been looking for!
Need to stop screwing up? Want to become a more positive person?
Do you work with an ass? Think you can rescue an addicted person?
Looking for closure after abuse? Have you realized that your parent is an asshole?
Feel compelled to clear your name? Hope to salvage a lost love?
Want to get a lover to commit? Plagued by a bully?
Afraid of ruining your kid? Ready to vent your anger?
In this brilliantly sensible and funny book, a Harvard-educated shrink and his comedy-writing daughter reveal that the real f-words in life are “feelings” and “fairness.” While most self-help books are about your feelings and fulfilling your wildest dreams, F*ck Feelings will show you how to find a new kind of freedom by getting your head out of your ass and yourself onto the right path toward realistic goals and feasible results. F*ck Feelings is the last self-help book you will ever need!
Michael Lewis - The Undoing Project
How a Nobel Prize–winning theory of the mind altered our perception of reality.
Forty years ago, Israeli psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky wrote a series of breathtakingly original studies undoing our assumptions about the decision-making process. Their papers showed the ways in which the human mind erred, systematically, when forced to make judgments in uncertain situations. Their work created the field of behavioral economics, revolutionized Big Data studies, advanced evidence-based medicine, led to a new approach to government regulation, and made much of Michael Lewis’s own work possible. Kahneman and Tversky are more responsible than anybody for the powerful trend to mistrust human intuition and defer to algorithms.
The Undoing Project is about a compelling collaboration between two men who have the dimensions of great literary figures. They became heroes in the university and on the battlefield―both had important careers in the Israeli military―and their research was deeply linked to their extraordinary life experiences. Amos Tversky was a brilliant, self-confident warrior and extrovert, the center of rapt attention in any room; Kahneman, a fugitive from the Nazis in his childhood, was an introvert whose questing self-doubt was the seedbed of his ideas. They became one of the greatest partnerships in the history of science, working together so closely that they couldn’t remember whose brain originated which ideas, or who should claim credit. They flipped a coin to decide the lead authorship on the first paper they wrote, and simply alternated thereafter.
This story about the workings of the human mind is explored through the personalities of two fascinating individuals so fundamentally different from each other that they seem unlikely friends or colleagues. In the process they may well have changed, for good, mankind’s view of its own mind.
David Levithan - Every Day
Every day a different body. Every day a different life. Every day in love with the same girl.
Every morning, A wakes in a different person’s body, a different person’s life. There’s never any warning about where it will be or who it will be. A has made peace with that, even established guidelines by which to live: Never get too attached. Avoid being noticed. Do not interfere.
It’s all fine until the morning that A wakes up in the body of Justin and meets Justin’s girlfriend, Rhiannon. From that moment, the rules by which A has been living no longer apply. Because finally A has found someone he wants to be with—day in, day out, day after day.
With his new novel, David Levithan has pushed himself to new creative heights. He has written a captivating story that will fascinate readers as they begin to comprehend the complexities of life and love in A’s world, as A and Rhiannon seek to discover if you can truly love someone who is destined to change every day.